I believe there are three types of people we let ride in our boat of life. This analogy can be applied to our personal and business relationships.
*The Rower-A person who is actively trying to help you get up the creek or help shift the current in your favor. This person could be praying for your success, cheering you on, and encouraging others to do the same. Additionally, the Rower is the watching your back while you focus on what lies ahead. Overall, The Rower is that person that can make a positive impact in your life.
*The Sleeper-A person who is just a long for the ride. They are not actively doing anything to help you get to the other side. Most times they are sleeping on their purpose and therefore can’t help support yours. I consider The Sleeper dead weight serving no positive purpose. Be careful because their snoring (gossiping, unfulfilled promises, hoarding information, and lack of action) can cause you to lose focus.
*The Driller-A person who is unhappy with the direction their boat is going in, so they hitch a ride in yours for the purpose of drilling holes in it. Then they quickly jump out and happily watch you sink. They have the toxic mindset of “If I can’t succeed, neither will you!” These types of people have an evil spirit of jealousy, boasting, and backstabbing. Beware, the white teeth you see from their smile is hiding the serpent tongue in their mouth.
This concept is important for leaders to understand. It could mean the difference of a thriving business or a sinking one. Take the time to assess who is sitting at your boardroom table. Are they engaged and supportive of the company mission and vision? Are they only there for the paycheck and clock watch? Does their talk create confusion and chaos? Regardless if the answer is yes or no, how would you interact with each personality?
I pray that I have been The Rower in your life in some aspect. Life is hard enough as it is. I also pray for you to have wisdom and discernment to know who is The Rower, The Sleeper, or The Driller. Finally, take some time to look down in the water at your own reflection to answer the question “Who’s in Your Boat?” Instead of rowing your own boat, you may be sleeping or self-sabotaging your purpose in life.
